Life is difficult. That is a truth about the world we live in, we are guaranteed to have struggles in our life. While we go through life and its struggles, what Paul says to the Romans can help serve as a guide for us “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” (Romans 12:18) This verse encapsulates what the essence of Christian living should be. A life characterized by peace, reconciliation, and harmony.
The command to live at peace with everyone is not a suggestion but a command for followers of Christ. It calls us to embody the principles of love, forgiveness, and reconciliation in all our interactions, with friends, family, neighbors, and even enemies. Living at peace does not mean avoiding conflict at all costs or compromising our convictions. What it does mean is that we have a commitment to pursue reconciliation and restoration, even in the face of adversity. This is not something that we come by easily; this requires humility, empathy, and a willingness to listen and understand the perspectives of others. Paul’s writing in Romans 12:18 challenges us to take a proactive approach towards peacekeeping. It pushes us to examine our attitudes and behaviors, asking ourselves: Do I contribute to discussion or division? Have I sought reconciliation where it is needed? And, have I extended forgiveness and grace to those who have wronged me?
As followers of Christ, we are called to be peacemakers and reflect the reconciling love of our Savior. Jesus said, “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God” (Matthew 5:9). Our pursuit of peace serves not only to honor God but also to testify to the power of His grace in our lives.
However, living at peace with everyone is not always going to be easy or straightforward. There will be times when reconciliation seems impossible. Yet, even in the face of such challenges, we are still called to live at peace, to be a peacemaker – to extend the hand of reconciliation, to seek common ground, and to demonstrate Christ-like love. Paul’s instruction reminds us that our responsibility for peace extends only “as far as it depends on you.” While we are called to strive for peace, we cannot control the responses or actions of others. There will be situations where despite our best efforts, the peaceful conclusion won’t be reached. In moments like these, we must trust God’s process, and remember that He is sovereign and His purposes will prevail, just maybe not the way we thought it would. This verse serves as a reminder for us that even though our surroundings might be hectic, and seemingly devoid of Christ and the peace he brings to our lives, that doesn’t mean we should give into our surroundings. In moments like these, we are to exemplify the peace that God’s word gives us.
Sam Moore
Dalraida church of Christ is a congregation of Christians that meet in the mid-town area of Montgomery, Alabama. Our goal and purpose is to seek and follow God and His Word in everything that we do in life.